My Child Is An Early Bird – Can I Do Something About It?
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Early morning wakings are
one of the toughest sleep problems to fix, if not the toughest. If you’re
wondering why, it’s because after a decent night’s rest your child has got more
energy to fight sleep in the morning. And the truth is, all of us come up into
lighter sleep phases in the last hour of our sleep, preparing to take up for
the day.
Remember, however, your
child is waking early only if he is not getting the right amount of night rest
for his age and his body. In other words, if your child sleeps from 7 PM to 6
AM, it’s a perfectly reasonable schedule for him, even though it might feel
early to you.
We can’t ask our children to
sleep more than 11 hours at night. Their bodies are usually rested after this
much sleep, and they won’t be able to do more.
Also keep in mind the
following fact: if your child is waking even at 10/½ hours, if he is rested and
energetic in the morning and makes it easily till his naptime, then he’s
getting enough rest for his body.
Problems arise if your child
sleeps from, say, 7 PM to 5:30 AM. In this case, you’ll need to push the
bedtime later by 15-minute increments, then watching to see if your child can
sleep later in the morning,
A word of caution, though:
Making the bedtime later can often have the opposite effect of causing your
child to wake up earlier. This is the reason why things need to be done in
small steps.
Here are some other ideas to
try if your child is an early bird:
• Make sure that your child’s room is very, very dark.
• If there are any sounds that could be waking him – such as
garbage trucks, barking dogs, sprinklers – put white noise in the room and make
the volume loud enough to protect him from these sounds
• Remove all stimulating toys from your child’s crib or bed,
which can be distracting once the sun enters his room.
• If you are checking in on your child within the last hour
before his wake time, your interaction may prevent him from returning to sleep.
Don’t check on him if it’s less than one hour till his wake time.
• Make sure the bedtime is not too late for your child’s age.
Adjust the bedtime earlier by 15-minute increments, and watch what happens in
the morning. In doing so, you will allow your child to sleep later, as he is
less overtired at bedtime. If he does wake earlier, return to your previous
bedtime. If moving the bedtime earlier has no effect on the wake time, you may
want to consider using the earlier bedtime anyway to help your child get the
right amount of night sleep for his age.
• Make sure your child is not hungry. If you have a child under
12 months and have newly begun to wean feedings, you may want to slow the
process down to give him more time to adjust. Moreover, be careful to ensure
that you are offering the breast or bottle more often during the day to help
him transition his previous nighttime feeds to the daytime, so he won’t be
hungry going down for sleep at night.
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